Relationship ideals

I want real dates, regularly. Once a week at first then can be once every two weeks as we see each other and talk more in every day life.
Dates with effort in conversation, politeness, fun, grooming and attire. Be creative. Be chilvirious.
The point of a date is to pursue and court me, in an effort to win my heart and hand.
I am not something you own or something that’s guaranteed to stick around no matter the treatment.
Please keep in mind that other people will give me what you are unable or unwilling to and constantly work to better yourself- without being asked.
I can give you directions or tell you what I need but I cannot fix problems for you.
Be attentive, patient, flexible, loving, assertive, fun and protective (within reason).
Have plans. Have alternative plans.
Be involved in my life. Don’t overstep (if you do I will let you know, don’t worry) take initiative to help and interact without being asked.